does love should go dutch.mp3
Hearing world, unlimited fantasy. Welcome to the radiostation of XXMU. We are a team, yes we can. This is Be in English. I’m Claire.As we all know, we students don’t have enough money, which means we still needto ask our parents for money. So it is a common thing that we go to therestaurant and we should go dutch for the bill. But does love still should godutch? How do you think about the equal love?How to play your part in your own love? In today’s program, let’s findthe answers together. So, after the song, please stay tuned.
When the conversation comes to love, it always raisesthe biggest emotion, reaction and passion. But, do you know what’s love? Loveis the feeling you will get when you meet the right person. This is why manypeople approach a new relationship. Consciously or unconsciously, they believethat love is a sensation that magically, spontaneously generates when Mr. orMs. Right appears. But, the most important part of love, maybe is equality. SoI think the love should go dutch. While, in our daily life, it must be a commonthing that, in a restaurant, two lovers, the boy will pay for the dinner, payfor the handbag when the girl is shopping, and even pay for everything the girlwanted. You can also hear that, “Honey, I’m hungry, let’s have dinner? Or, wow!the handbag or the pair of shoes is so beautiful! Then, you can see the hurrypaying steps of the boy. But it doesn’t matter. Because it’s not the truemeaning of the love going dutch, and this is special.
For example, Jane Austen is a great women novelist inthe late 18th century to the early 19th. The range of hernovels is narrow but deep. On the analysis of the two couple’s marriage in<Pride and prejudice>,we find that Elizabeth and Darcy are much more happier than Lydia and Wickham.Elizabeth and Darcy are not only independent in thought, personality andeconomy, but also are equal in their attitudes. All of these determine thatthey will have a happy marriage. In the estate society, their statues are notequal but they can smash the bonds of the tradition and can treat each otherequally.
One always relies on another, that is not the trueequal love, one always takes, while another is always giving, that is not thetrue equal love. To sum it up, mature love is the union under the condition ofpreserving one’s individually. In love, two beings become one yet remain two,and this is the true meaning of the equal love.
And at the end of today’s program, I want to share abeautiful love poem with you:
To the Oak Tree
If I love you
I will never be a trumpet creeper
Clinging to your body to highlight my height
If I love you
I will never be a spoony bird
Repeating the monotonous song for a green shade
I must be a ceiba stand by your side
A tree, with roots clinched underground
And leaves touched in the cloud
We nod to each other
When each gust passes by
But nobody can understand our words
